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A
Family for Every Child September
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AFFEC/Heart
Gallery Mentor Program

The
mission of the Heart Gallery Mentor Program is
to provide foster children with a dedicated,
nurturing, caring individual who will be a
friend to talk to and a companion to have fun
with. It is essential that every child has
a reliable support system in their lives and a
mentor plays a big role for foster
children. A mentor has the opportunity to
be a constant source of stability and
encouragement to a foster child in need of
guidance and direction. By being a positive role
model, a mentor can help instill in the child
the confidence and creativity that will allow
them to succeed in life.
Through continued
involvement, the adult offers support, guidance,
and assistance as the younger person goes
through a difficult period, faces new
challenges, or works to correct earlier
problems. In particular, where parents are
either unavailable or unable to provide
responsible guidance for their children, mentors
can play a critical role.
"A
mentor is someone who allows you to see the hope
inside yourself." - Oprah
Winfrey
Testimony
from a current mentor:
Spending
time with Harry is the highlight of my
week! We go to the library, work on art
projects, play catch, make dinner together,
throw the ball for my dog, watch a movie, or
play hot wheels. He loves the one-on-one
attention and I love seeing that sparkle appear
in his eye when he knows that someone is focused
on him and listening to his every
word. Mentoring is a joy and I am
incredibly grateful to have the opportunity to
know Harry and spend time with him! -
Angela
Data
clearly shows that many youths have a desperate
need for positive role models. Evaluations
show that young people in various mentoring
programs had higher levels of college enrollment
and higher educational aspirations than those
surveyed who did not have a mentor. Youths
who have mentors are 46% less likely to begin
using drugs, 27% less likely to begin using
alcohol, and 52% less likely to skip
school. This decreases drug-related
suspensions, drug-related crime, and the number
of babies born drug effected. There are 14.6
million at-risk young people who need mentors;
by volunteering as a mentor you can help one
child have a better life.
Have
you ever wanted the chance to positively impact
or bring joy to the life of a child? Mentoring
can do just that. It does not take a lot
of time, just 10 hours a month or 2.5 hours per
week. All it requires is just being a
friend with a listening ear who can encourage
opportunities for a successful life
journey.
Many
of these youths need someone just like you to
make a difference for them. We must be the
change we want to see, now is your chance to
help a child succeed!
For
more information on mentoring a youth in foster
care, please contact our office
541-343-2856
lisa@afamilyforeverychild.org
or
Mentor
Home Page
Online
mentor application: If you would like to become
a mentor here is the application to get the
process started Mentor
Application
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Featured Child:

Daniel is a seven-year-old
boy looking for a mentor who can be a positive
role model and friend. Daniel is a energetic boy
that likes to ride his bike, fish, swim and play
games. His favorite subject in school is
math (although he says he doesn't really like
school). Daniel would like to be a police
officer when he grows up. He is hoping a
mentor can spend some time with him doing some of
the fun things he likes to do. Do you have
just 10 hours a month to be a mentor for
Daniel?
Please
contact our office @ 541-343-2856 or email
lisa@afamilyforeverychild.org
to find out more about becoming a mentor for
Daniel or other foster children waiting for a
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Mentoring Program Success Story
Josh and Lenny - Stillwater,
MN
Lenny volunteers his time through Family
Means, a Stillwater, Minnesota-based nonprofit.
Over the last two years, Lenny has been a mentor
to Josh, a seventh-grade boy. The two spend time
together each week, riding bikes, going to
movies and sporting events or finding other
adventures in the Twin Cities Area.
Josh's father is not part of his life,
so Lenny's time with him is very important.
Lenny encourages Josh to believe in himself, and
models trust and respect, which has helped Josh
develop his own self-confidence. "Josh is a
bright kid, who needed a good male role model,"
Lenny says, adding, "If my spending time with
Josh helps to improve his life, it's worth every
minute."
Through encouragement from Lenny, Josh
has become a volunteer, too. Since Josh is an
avid reader, he took the initiative to help
another young boy practice his reading skills.
The time spent with the young boy has raised
both Josh's and the young boy's self-confidence.
Josh is beginning to spread kindness on
many different occasions. On a recent visit with
Lenny to a St. Paul Saints minor league baseball
game, Josh wanted a baseball more than anything.
"When he happened to catch a fly ball, he said,
'Oh, well' and gave it to a little girl who
tried to catch the ball but had fallen down.
Josh explained, 'She looked so sad; I wanted her
to have a good
time.'"
Lenny goes the extra mile to make time
for Josh, often joining him and his friends for
lunch at their school cafeteria. As a
pediatrician, Lenny has also been able to
convince Josh about the dangers of not wearing a
helmet when riding his bicycle. Now Josh
recommends wearing a helmet to his friends.
Lenny is honored to be part of Josh's
life. "My gift to the community has been
allowing Josh to share his many talents that
were often hidden by the stresses of dealing
with many problems. My hope and prayer is that
we will stay friends and he will continue to
give to the
community." | |
Independent
Living Skills Group - Needs
You!
Many
foster children age out of foster care with
no real life skills.
45%
are unemployed
33%
are arrested
30%
are on welfare between 18- 24
26%
spend time in jail or prison
25%
are homeless
50%
do not complete High School
60%
of Girls have a child within four
years
We
would like to help foster children succeed with
the life skills they deserve. We are
looking for community partners and volunteers
willing to help prepare foster children for life
after foster care.
There
are many skills out there that a child can
benefit from. It could be anything from car
mechanics (changing the oil and flat tires),
Banking, Budgets (rent, utilities, food,
roommates, etc.), interviewing for jobs, resume
and cover letters, college applications,
understanding the chaffee grants, computer
skills, cooking, cleaning and laundry, grocery
shopping, community service (giving back and
paying it forward), handling stress while living
on your own, setting goals (self-confidence and
consequences).
We
are in the beginning stages of creating monthly
meetings to give teens in foster care life
skills. DHS currently has ILP (Independent
Living Program) that we fully support. However,
there is a long wait list for foster children to
get in the program. If we can provide some of
these life skills for some of the waiting
children we can lesson the statistics of
life after Foster Care.
The
next meeting to discuss ways to implement life
skills is Tuesday, September 21st @
6:00pm at the AFFEC office - 880
Beltline Rd. Springfield OR
97477. | |
Winter
Wonderland Gala Dinner &
Auction
Save
the date: November
10th
Place:
Valley River Inn
Time:
5:30pm social hour
$100
Per Person
$1,000
Per Table (10)
Event
Chairs:
Diana
Bray, Roxy Ragozzino, Melissa
Stock
Auctioneer:
Sid
Voorhees
Master
of Ceremonies:
Bill
Barrett
Sponsorship
Opportunities
Available
For
more information or to RSVP,
contact:
541-343-2856
info@afamilyforeverychild.org |
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Social Workers:
See How We Can Help You Match Your
Kids
At
the link below you will find a "Search" form
that you can fill out. We will then search our
database of over 5000 families for you. We ask
that you give us 3-4 business days to do so.
Once you have filled out the form (at the link
below) we will enter this information in our
database, pull up families that fit this
criteria and develop a targeted template and
email that will go out to as many as 500
families at a time. Images are very important,
so please do your best to supply one, it will
make a
difference. Link to
Form
We
do our best to use the information
you provide to give you the families
you think will be successful for your
child/children. Please be as open as you can
about area. If a child has to move, a two-hour
move may be as dramatic as one across the
country. When open to a bigger area, you are
likely to get a more skilled, more specific
group for your
children. | |
How can you
contact A Family For Every
Child? Call,
email, or visit us online or in
person!
880
Beltline Rd. Springfield Oregon
97477
office
- 541-343-2856 toll
free - 877-343-2856 fax
- 541-343-2866
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Essay Contest: Win a
Laptop!
Do
you have an older teen in foster care that needs a
computer? We are accepting essays for a
chance to win a new laptop. We will be giving
away four new laptops to youths currently in foster
care in Lane County, Oregon, ages 14 to 21. Essays
will be judged on:
-How the
laptop will benefit the youth
-Why
they feel they need a laptop
-What
their life goals are
See
complete terms and conditions of essay contest
here Contest
Rules

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Do
you need a mentor for a child on your caseload? Please
fill out the online form and we will start the process
to create a mentor match. We recruit volunteers
from the community to mentor youth in foster care. We do
the screening, background check and training. All
you need to do is refer a child on your caseload by
filling out the online form.
Referral Form
Children are
interviewed to find an adult match with
similar
interests. |
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We
currently have twelve young boys between the ages of 10
and 17 who need a male role model. Someone to help guide
them to make good choices and explore new opportunities.
This
is a small time commitment of 10 hours per month, but
makes a huge difference in the lives of young boys
growing up in foster care. You don't have to be
perfect to be a friend!
We
are looking for adults in the outlying areas of Lane
County, Veneta, Cottage Grove, Oakridge, and Junction
City.
We
are also willing to come to speak to your community
group, church or men's group to help communicate the
importance of
mentors! |
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Upcoming
Sessions:
September
9th, 2010 - Speaker from DHS sharing about CANS
Assessment and Adoption
Subsidy
September
23rd, 2010 - Youth Panel sharing their stories - youth
from foster care, adopted youth, youth who have
aged-out
When:
2nd and 4th Thursdays of each
month
Time:
5:30-7:30pm
Where:
Boys and Girls Club of Emerald
Valley 1545 W 22nd Ave Eugene, OR
97405
Activities
for Children available
Please
RSVP to: lisa@afamilyforeverychild.org
Click
below for a great webinar on adoption!
Check
out our resource page:
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