AFFEC Mentor Program 

http://www.afamilyforeverychild.org (541-343-2856)

880 Beltline Rd. Springfield, OR 97477 

 

A Family for Every Child          September 2010

 

AFFEC/Heart Gallery Mentor Program

 

 Debbie

 

The mission of the Heart Gallery Mentor Program is to provide foster children with a dedicated, nurturing, caring individual who will be a friend to talk to and a companion to have fun with.  It is essential that every child has a reliable support system in their lives and a mentor plays a big role for foster children.  A mentor has the opportunity to be a constant source of stability and encouragement to a foster child in need of guidance and direction. By being a positive role model, a mentor can help instill in the child the confidence and creativity that will allow them to succeed in life.

Through continued involvement, the adult offers support, guidance, and assistance as the younger person goes through a difficult period, faces new challenges, or works to correct earlier problems. In particular, where parents are either unavailable or unable to provide responsible guidance for their children, mentors can play a critical role.

"A mentor is someone who allows you to see the hope inside yourself." - Oprah Winfrey

Testimony from a current mentor:

Spending time with Harry is the highlight of my week!  We go to the library, work on art projects, play catch, make dinner together, throw the ball for my dog, watch a movie, or play hot wheels.  He loves the one-on-one attention and I love seeing that sparkle appear in his eye when he knows that someone is focused on him and listening to his every word. Mentoring is a joy and I am incredibly grateful to have the opportunity to know Harry and spend time with him! - Angela

Data clearly shows that many youths have a desperate need for positive role models.  Evaluations show that young people in various mentoring programs had higher levels of college enrollment and higher educational aspirations than those surveyed who did not have a mentor.  Youths who have mentors are 46% less likely to begin using drugs, 27% less likely to begin using alcohol, and 52% less likely to skip school.  This decreases drug-related suspensions, drug-related crime, and the number of babies born drug effected. There are 14.6 million at-risk young people who need mentors; by volunteering as a mentor you can help one child have a better life.

Have you ever wanted the chance to positively impact or bring joy to the life of a child? Mentoring can do just that.  It does not take a lot of time, just 10 hours a month or 2.5 hours per week. All it requires is just being a friend with a listening ear who can encourage opportunities for a successful life journey. 

Many of these youths need someone just like you to make a difference for them. We must be the change we want to see, now is your chance to help a child succeed!

For more information on mentoring a youth in foster care, please contact our office 541-343-2856 lisa@afamilyforeverychild.org or  Mentor Home Page

Online mentor application: If you would like to become a mentor here is the application to get the process started Mentor Application

 

 

Featured Child:

 Daniel, Age 7

 

Daniel is a seven-year-old boy looking for a mentor who can be a positive role model and friend. Daniel is a energetic boy that likes to ride his bike, fish, swim and play games.  His favorite subject in school is math (although he says he doesn't really like school).  Daniel would like to be a police officer when he grows up.  He is hoping a mentor can spend some time with him doing some of the fun things he likes to do.  Do you have just 10 hours a month to be a mentor for Daniel? 

 

Please contact our office @ 541-343-2856 or email lisa@afamilyforeverychild.org to find out more about becoming a mentor for Daniel or other foster children waiting for a mentor. 

 

 

 Mentoring Program Success Story 

 

Josh and Lenny - Stillwater, MN

 

Lenny volunteers his time through Family Means, a Stillwater, Minnesota-based nonprofit. Over the last two years, Lenny has been a mentor to Josh, a seventh-grade boy. The two spend time together each week, riding bikes, going to movies and sporting events or finding other adventures in the Twin Cities Area.

Josh's father is not part of his life, so Lenny's time with him is very important. Lenny encourages Josh to believe in himself, and models trust and respect, which has helped Josh develop his own self-confidence. "Josh is a bright kid, who needed a good male role model," Lenny says, adding, "If my spending time with Josh helps to improve his life, it's worth every minute."

Through encouragement from Lenny, Josh has become a volunteer, too. Since Josh is an avid reader, he took the initiative to help another young boy practice his reading skills. The time spent with the young boy has raised both Josh's and the young boy's self-confidence.

Josh is beginning to spread kindness on many different occasions. On a recent visit with Lenny to a St. Paul Saints minor league baseball game, Josh wanted a baseball more than anything. "When he happened to catch a fly ball, he said, 'Oh, well' and gave it to a little girl who tried to catch the ball but had fallen down. Josh explained, 'She looked so sad; I wanted her to have a good time.'"

Lenny goes the extra mile to make time for Josh, often joining him and his friends for lunch at their school cafeteria. As a pediatrician, Lenny has also been able to convince Josh about the dangers of not wearing a helmet when riding his bicycle. Now Josh recommends wearing a helmet to his friends.

Lenny is honored to be part of Josh's life. "My gift to the community has been allowing Josh to share his many talents that were often hidden by the stresses of dealing with many problems. My hope and prayer is that we will stay friends and he will continue to give to the community."

 

 

Independent Living Skills Group - Needs You! 

 

 

Many foster children age out of foster care with no real life skills.

45% are unemployed

33% are arrested

30% are on welfare between 18- 24

26% spend time in jail or prison

25% are homeless

50% do not complete High School

60% of Girls have a child within four years

We would like to help foster children succeed with the life skills they deserve. We are looking for community partners and volunteers willing to help prepare foster children for life after foster care. 

There are many skills out there that a child can benefit from. It could be anything from car mechanics (changing the oil and flat tires), Banking, Budgets (rent, utilities, food, roommates, etc.), interviewing for jobs, resume and cover letters, college applications, understanding the chaffee grants, computer skills, cooking, cleaning and laundry, grocery shopping, community service (giving back and paying it forward), handling stress while living on your own, setting goals (self-confidence and consequences). 

 

We are in the beginning stages of creating monthly meetings to give teens in foster care life skills. DHS currently has ILP (Independent Living Program) that we fully support. However, there is a long wait list for foster children to get in the program. If we can provide some of these life skills for some of the waiting children we can lesson the statistics of life after Foster Care.

 

The next meeting to discuss ways to implement life skills is Tuesday, September 21st @ 6:00pm at the AFFEC office - 880 Beltline Rd. Springfield OR 97477.

 

 

 Winter Wonderland Gala Dinner & Auction 

 

Save the date: November 10th 

Place: Valley River Inn

Time: 5:30pm social hour

 

$100 Per Person

$1,000 Per Table (10)

 

Event Chairs:

Diana Bray, Roxy Ragozzino, Melissa Stock

 

Auctioneer:

Sid Voorhees

 

Master of Ceremonies:

Bill Barrett

 

Sponsorship Opportunities Available

 

For more information or to RSVP, contact:

541-343-2856 info@afamilyforeverychild.org

 

 

 

Social Workers: See How We Can Help You Match Your Kids 

 

At the link below you will find a "Search" form that you can fill out. We will then search our database of over 5000 families for you. We ask that you give us 3-4 business days to do so. Once you have filled out the form (at the link below) we will enter this information in our database, pull up families that fit this criteria and develop a targeted template and email that will go out to as many as 500 families at a time. Images are very important, so please do your best to supply one, it will make a difference. 
 
Link to Form

 

We do our best to use the information you provide to give you the families you think will be successful for your child/children. Please be as open as you can about area. If a child has to move, a two-hour move may be as dramatic as one across the country. When open to a bigger area, you are likely to get a more skilled, more specific group for your children.

 

 

How can you contact A Family For Every Child?
Call, email, or visit us online or in person!


contactus880 Beltline Rd.
Springfield Oregon 97477

office - 541-343-2856
toll free - 877-343-2856
fax - 541-343-2866


Executive Director--Christy Obie-Barrett
info@afamilyforeverychild.org

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Essay Contest: Win a Laptop! 

 

Do you have an older teen in foster care that needs a computer?  We are accepting essays for a chance to win a new laptop. We will be giving away four new laptops to youths currently in foster care in Lane County, Oregon, ages 14 to 21.  Essays will be judged on:

 

-How the laptop will benefit the youth

 

-Why they feel they need a laptop

 

-What their life goals are 

 

See complete terms and conditions of essay contest here  Contest Rules 

Debbie

 

 

 

Caseworker Section 

 

Do you need a mentor for a child on your caseload? Please fill out the online form and we will start the process to create a mentor match. We recruit volunteers from the community to mentor youth in foster care. We do the screening, background check and training.  All you need to do is refer a child on your caseload by filling out the online form.

Referral Form

Children are interviewed to find an adult match with similar interests.

 

 

 

Volunteers Needed 

 

We currently have twelve young boys between the ages of 10 and 17 who need a male role model. Someone to help guide them to make good choices and explore new opportunities.

 

This is a small time commitment of 10 hours per month, but makes a huge difference in the lives of young boys growing up in foster care. You don't have to be perfect to be a friend!

We are looking for adults in the outlying areas of Lane County, Veneta, Cottage Grove, Oakridge, and Junction City.

We are also willing to come to speak to your community group, church or men's group to help communicate the importance of mentors!

 

 

 

Support Group 

 Meetings

 

Upcoming Sessions:

  

September 9th, 2010 - Speaker from DHS sharing about CANS Assessment and Adoption Subsidy

 

September 23rd, 2010 - Youth Panel sharing their stories - youth from foster care, adopted youth, youth who have aged-out
 

When: 2nd and 4th Thursdays of each month

Time: 5:30-7:30pm

Where: Boys and Girls Club of Emerald Valley
1545 W 22nd Ave
Eugene, OR 97405

Activities for Children available

Please RSVP to: lisa@afamilyforeverychild.org

Click below for a great webinar on adoption!

 

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 AFFEC Media

 

AFFEC is on Facebook, Myspace, and more. Click on the links!

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AFFEC Blog: Please contribute your thoughts!

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Our Mentor Program now has a discussion group:

Yahoo Mentor Group Disc

 

Perhaps you are addicted to Social Media. Perhaps you would like to get involved. We could use you!

 

We are always looking for volunteers to help us manage and respond to these sites. If you are interested, please contact christy@afamilyforeverychild.org

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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