February 2010
Vol 1, Issue 3
Family Finding
Newsletter
Volunteers,
It has been a great month in Family Finding. We have started to get some really good volunteer's who are very involved with the program. I really appreciate each and everyone of you who have put your time and energy into helping these children find permanent connections in their lives, that they might not have had without family finding services.
In this newsletter I have included a few articles with information about family finding. I have put together a quick 6 question survey that I would appreciate if you took the time to complete. I am always interested in your thoughts and ideas to help make this a better program.
 
2010 Volunteer Survey
Please take a few minutes to click on this link and complete a quick survey on the family finding program.
I appreciate all comments and suggestions you might have at anytime. This program is successful because of volunteers like yourself, Your ideas and suggestions can really help make this a stronger program.

<a href="http://www.surveymonkey.com/s/TS8QP83">Click here to take survey</a>

Thank you in advance for taking a few minutes out of your day to complete this survey.

A Determined Quest to Bring Adoptive Ties to Foster Teenagers


This is a great article from the New York times that talks about family finding. Also, a great success story, the pull of blood ties affected Robert Jackson, a 53-year-old meat packer across the Mississippi River in Fairview, Ill. He had not known that his troubled younger brother had fathered two children in St. Louis who soon ended up in foster care, with the parents' rights terminated by a court. By chance, about two years ago he saw an advertisement in a local newspaper for potential adoptive parents that featured a picture of Charles, now 13, and Charlotte, now 12.

Mr. Jackson did a double take: the boy bore an uncanny resemblance to his brother, the girl resembled a sister, and Charles and Charlotte were family names. After confirming his suspicion, Mr. Jackson recalled, "I thought, 'We've got to bring them back into the family.' " .. continued in the article, just copy and paste the link to your browser.

http://www.nytimes.com/2010/01/31/us/31adopt.html?pagewanted=1


Calling 101-
- Make sure to let the person you are calling know that you are NOT with DHS and you are simply a volunteer with AFFEC trying to build connections for the child.

- Be patient and listen. A lot of times the person on the other end will vent their frustration they have with DHS.

- It always helps to let the person know you are trying to build a family tree for the child and ask them if they have any brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles that they have information for. Gathering as much information as you can will really help connect the child with relatives that may not even know the child is in care.

- Remember we are not giving out information about the child, we are trying to gather information and contacts from the relatives.
The next Brainstorming session will be on Tuesday 2/9/10 from 5:30-7pm. Please let me know if you plan on attending. Any suggestions for topics to cover are always welcomed. Also the next Family Finding training will be on Saturday, February 27, 2010 here at AFFEC from 9am- 12pm. We are always looking for volunteers. We currently need Spanish speaking volunteers who are able to make calls. Spread the word to your family and friends!!


 
Becca Larsen
541-343-2856
becca@afamilyforeverychild.org

 
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